Warring Energies Win

Warring energies strangely often win. In all that we do, there is an opportunity to be fueled by both masculine and feminine energies that help us push up against challenges and pile-drive through barriers, while maintaining needed gaps for recovery. Photos –...

My life-altering “Me Too” sees no gender

From birth I was trained and programmed to be a target of abuse or misuse. I was trained to smile despite unfair treatment. This cultural bathing marinated me into prime meat; I became the wheelchair and trampoline to any shape-shifters I encountered who needed...

Fixing Your Broken Priorities

As we work to define and refine new goals, it’s critical that we ensure they matter. There is nothing weaker than a list of goals about which we are not truly passionate and committed. Let me show you how broken priorities look: Priority 1 — Priority 2...

A primer on my journey

I won’t attempt to convey my entire journey in a blog post, but I will lay down some key ties on the long stretch of railway. I have long carried certain passions in my mind and in journals like a cherished burden. Hundreds of pages of in-progress notes, stories...
About KindEdge

About KindEdge

Welcome… Thanks for joining me. I’d like to share a bit about how KindEdge.com got started. KindEdge is a suite of tools I built for myself. They enabled me to fundamentally transform my life and I now spend every minute of my day differently, with greater purpose,...
About Mary

About Mary

If you were wondering what the meaning of life is, it’s this: Run tests. Ask “what works?” Do that and… Run more tests… A bit about me… I’ve got five earth-decades under my belt and I continue learning new things every day. I’m a...

Zeroing In on Purpose

Defining your Ikigai in practical terms Like you, I’m a human on a quest to make my one golden ticket count. I believe in infinite self-kaizen, a commitment to living a bespoke and optimized life by compassionately reflecting on each day’s outcomes carve...
C is for Change. D is for Disappoint.

C is for Change. D is for Disappoint.

“Dear World: You are my only test environment. As I change, I’m bound to leave a few messy experiments in my wake. I give myself permission to experiment with change every day.” As you work to implement change in your life, you will encounter many invisible barriers....
A Simple Start

A Simple Start

This website, and writing about my KindEdge approach to transformational life change, is more than a passion project. I’ve survived a frightening three-year divorce that would have left most broken and in pieces. Financial abuse, false facts and much more pulled me...

Change is a Muscle

This is a blog post about blue skies After decades of allowing outside forces to keep my goals locked within my head, I finally learned the key to making change real. I learned that change is a muscle, and it must be strengthened every day. By taking the smallest step...